Original Sun Honglei became famous and saw his unkempt girlfriend Ding Jiali: Let’s break up.

In 2002, Sun Honglei, who had achieved great success, came home after a busy day and saw his 43-year-old girlfriend, Ding Jiali, cooking unkemptly. He suddenly became disgusted. The more he thought about it, the more angry he became. He threw his clothes at her and said, "I don’t think we are suitable. Let’s break up." On hearing that we were going to break up, Ding Jiali was puzzled: "Why? Aren’t we doing well now? Sun Honglei: "Do you think we are still a good match now?" It is said that behind every successful man, there is a woman who silently supports him, and Sun Honglei is no exception, and there are two women behind him, one is his mother, and the other is the actress Ding Jiali. Sun Honglei was born in a poor family in the northeast. There were six or seven people in the family at that time. At the end of each month, her mother would borrow money from her neighbors to live. And Sun Honglei also works very hard. He knows that his mother is hardworking, and she has to pick up rags to support her family when she comes back from work every day. So Sun Honglei followed her mother to collect junk and sell it after school. Sun Honglei liked break dancing since he was a child, and when he was eighteen, he also took part in a break dancing competition. His wonderful dance surprised the judges and won the first prize.

In this way, with his own efforts, Sun Honglei was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama. In the two years of Chinese opera, Sun Honglei was the most diligent student in the eyes of teachers and students. He was obsessed with acting, so he was called "crazy about drama". But after graduation, Sun Honglei, like most people, only played a supporting role at first, and then there was no improvement for a long time until she met a woman, Ding Jiali. At that time, Sun Honglei and Ding Jiali became attached to each other for their role in the drama Madame Curie, while Sun Honglei was a newcomer, both of whom were from the Northeast, and they hit it off at first sight. At that time, Ding Jiali was already very famous in the entertainment industry, and he was also a first-class actor in the national drama, and won the Golden Rooster Award, the Huabiao Award and other major awards.

At that time, Sun Honglei was still a fledgling newcomer in the entertainment industry. On the other hand, Ding Jiali has been in the entertainment industry for many years, and her resources and fame are incomparable to those of Sun Honglei. But when he saw Ding Jiali, he fell in love at first sight, and even began to pursue it directly. In order to get Ding Jiali’s consent, he was caring and attentive every day, and he also publicly expressed his feelings in the crew. In the face of Sun Honglei’s pursuit, Ding Jiali hesitated. For one thing, she had been hurt twice emotionally, and she dared not open the door of her feelings easily again. Secondly, she knows that she is 11 years older than Sun Honglei. Besides, she broke up and gave birth to a son and a daughter. This kind of love will not be valued. But Sun Honglei didn’t care. Ding Jiali was ill in hospital, so he personally made soup for her and sent it to feed her. Over time, Ding Jiali was moved by this young man, and they began to live together. At that time, Ding Jiali saw Sun Honglei’s acting talent and began to cultivate it. In order to pave the way for Sun Honglei, she spared no effort. And there are rumors that at that time, Ding Jiali put down his dignity and knelt down, begging Zhao Baogang to take good care of his own people, just for her boyfriend to have more scenes. A year later, "Fog Like Rain Like Wind" was broadcasted, and Sun Honglei finally opened his career. After that, his career became more and more prosperous. In 2002, he starred in the movie "Zhou Yu’s Train", with Gong Li.

Many opponents. Since then, Sun Honglei’s fame has soared, and more and more plays have come to him, and his resources are getting better and better. His coffee table has also risen from an unknown little actor to a famous actor.

Unexpectedly, Sun Honglei became popular, but her heart changed with it. At that time, Sun Honglei and Gong Li, the famous film winner, had an affair while filming Zhou Yu’s Train. Even when a reporter asked him about Gong Li, he said: Gong Li is really a perfect woman. If she is single, I really want to chase her. Ding Jiali was very angry when she learned about it, but she didn’t want to make it clear, because she was afraid that Sun Honglei would leave her if she said it. Until one day, when Sun Honglei returned home after dinner, he immediately hated Ding Jiali without makeup, so how can he compare with the goddess Gong Li? When Ding Jiali was still holding him, he said with concern: Drink less and go into the house and lie down. Sun Honglei, who was more and more angry, said impatiently, "Let’s break up."

Ding Jiali asked Sun Honglei to give her a statement. The man was so rude that he didn’t even look at her. He just said, "Do you think we deserve each other?"

Ding Jiali silently shed sad tears when she thought of her own efforts, but what she got was a breakup. In this way, I agreed. After the breakup, Ding Jiali was devastated, so sad that she couldn’t take the show any more, and once suffered from depression. After the two broke up, they met in public. Sun Honglei walked straight over and pretended not to know each other, which made Ding Jiali feel chilling. Ding Jiali once said: "I have never been really cared for by a man in my life." This may be the hurdle that she can’t get through in her life. Sun Honglei, on the other hand, turned around and talked about love with Wang Jundi, a musician who was only 24 years old. This girlfriend is nearly 20 years younger than Ding Jiali. Soon Sun Honglei married Wang Jundi, and at the wedding scene, she said to her wife, "I am only good to you in my life", which immediately moved Wang Jundi.

After three years of marriage, Wang Jundi and Sun Honglei gave birth to a child.

A beautiful daughter, he and his wife have a very good relationship, and they often attend various activities together. Nowadays, Sun Honglei has gained a firm foothold in the entertainment circle with its own efforts, and the resources are constant. But without the support of Ding Jiali at the beginning, it must be hard for him to meet this rare opportunity. What do you think?

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One of Laojun Mountain (Records of Mountains and Rivers)

  Before going to Laojun Mountain in Luanchuan, I made a simple strategy. First of all, I’m curious about whether there are any other places called Laojun Mountain. After searching, there are a dozen Laojun Mountains all over the country. But on second thought, it is also reasonable. Either there are legends left behind, or because of reverence, in short, there are various reasons why so many mountains share this name, and the mountains have different names. This is the same road.

  However, although there are so many Laojun Mountains, with my selfishness, even if I come to Laojun Mountain in Luanchuan for the first time, I will naturally feel the most cordial here. Why? This is Henan. I’m from Henan. There is also a very hard basis: the Tao Te Ching was written in Hanguguan. Of all the Laojun Mountains, there is nothing closer than Laojun Mountain in Luanchuan and Hanguguan. By the way, there is another thing to say: Laojun Mountain here is actually the main peak of Funiu Mountain, the remaining pulse of Qinling Mountains. It is well known that I ride a green cow. Isn’t this mountain in early spring like a huge green cow?

  The mountain gate is very close to Luanchuan county, but it takes only ten minutes by car. Looking at the mountain at the foot of the mountain, the sky is gloomy and dark clouds are rolling. The tour guide brother said it might rain. Then it will rain. "and, after a night of mountain rain, from each summit come hundreds of silken cascades", you might as well enjoy Baizhong Spring in Laojun Mountain.

  Take the cable car slowly up the hill. The wind is strong, but the cable car is smooth. With the elevation, the cableway has two levels. The first level is divided into two branches, one is called Zhongling cableway, which is the first cableway built by Laojun Mountain, starting from Lingguan Hall and reaching Zhongtianmen, so it is named Zhongling. One is the Yunjing cableway, which starts from Zhaigou and ends at Zhongtianmen. It’s longer than Zhongling cableway, and it has more pleasing scenery. Thanks for these great inventions. I am such a timid person, I will never try to fly with wings. If I want to have a bird’s-eye view, I can only rely on such an invention.

  It’s really beautiful, this spring mountain. No matter whether the leaves are green or the flowers are beautiful, all colors are the original colors, which are extremely pure. Forsythia suspensa and Yingchun both have yellow flowers, but they are different, one is gorgeous and the other is calm. Magnolia is also divided into red magnolia and magnolia, and magnolia is more. Grandma’s name is Yulan, so Yulan is my favorite tree. It really hits it off, and people here seem to like Magnolia very much. Magnolia can be seen everywhere in the county seat, and most of the street trees are magnolia. Magnolia is also planted on both sides of the road up the mountain. But the magnolia on this mountain is different from that on the foot of the mountain. The flowers are smaller, and the small flowers are blossoming upwards, full and hard, as if each one is gathering light.

  On the first level, I arrived at Zhongtianmen-there are Zhongtianmen in Taishan, and there are many places called Zhongtianmen, right? After getting off the cable car, we strolled to the observation deck and looked in the direction of Luanchuan County. We thought we would be obscured by clouds, but it was very clear. What comes into view is a vast plain, surrounded by miniature buildings, roads and ant-like vehicles. The outline of Yishui is faintly visible in the middle. It suddenly occurred to me that the Longmen Grottoes, more than 100 kilometers away, are also beside Yishui. Thinking of Lushena’s smile is like spring water. "Good if water. Water is good for all things without arguing, and it is evil for everyone, so it is a few words. " When the wise man wrote this, did he also think of Yishui?

  Transfer to the peak forest cableway and continue to climb the mountain, and the mountain becomes steeper and steeper. Out of this higher cableway station, look into the mountains. At this moment, all the mountains are shrouded in clouds, and it really is "how can I tell, through all these clouds?". However, being in the fog and being close to it, there is no gloomy color, but the humidity is getting heavier.

  Follow the trail slowly. While listening to the tour guide’s little brother talking about the past, I can’t go without Laozi and the origin of Laozi and Laojunshan. It is said that Lao Tzu went here to practice in seclusion during the Eastern Zhou Dynasty. In the administrative territory, Laojunshan has been owned by Lushi for many years. It is recorded in Lushi County Records and Inscriptions that laojunmiao was built on the mountain in the Northern Wei Dynasty. In the 11th year of Zhenguan in Tang Dynasty —— AD 637 —— Li Shimin sent Wei Chijingde as the supervisor to rebuild laojunmiao. During the Wanli period of the Ming Dynasty, Lu’s county magistrate Gao Gao also wrote "Ode to Mount Jingshi"-Jingshi Mountain is another name of Laojun Mountain. In the preface, he wrote: "Yu to Lu’s, I heard that there are mountains in the world, and the customs are passed down as the residence of Laozi, that is, named after Laojun."

  Like all places of interest, the incense on the mountain is also very prosperous. Even in this weather, there are many people going up the mountain, and most of them come for praying. It’s just that the way of praying now is also advancing with the times. Blessing signs are everywhere on the branches and railings. In early spring, the trees are swaying with fresh and tender green, and the dense red signs move with the wind, dancing like hearts. Some are grand, such as "I wish world peace". Some are specific, such as "get rich as soon as possible", "make a fortune", "succeed in postgraduate entrance examination" and "go ashore as soon as possible" Looking at it, I can’t help wondering who the well-wishers are. "I hope I can get to the right platform to shine as soon as possible and provide a better life for my family." I want to come to this person who just walked out of school. "I wish my daughter a lifetime with someone at the latest by the end of the year." I think this tone should be a mother. There are many emotional cards. "I wish the opposite sex a smooth relationship". Maybe this one has too many same-sex friends, so I have to emphasize the opposite sex? "I have always loved you. You should live well and let me love you." What kind of person is this? No matter what kind of person, just love.

  Strolling to the "ten-mile painting screen", in the fog, the tour guide is very dutiful. It is said that clouds cover thousands of miles when the sea of clouds is mighty, that the autumn colors of maple trees dye thousands of peaks, that the white cuckoo is amazing, that the stars are seen on the top of the mountain in midsummer night, that the snow begins to fall, and that Chu Qing is after the snow, and the sunshine, the snow color and the gold on the top of the hall complement each other, which is beautiful. Pointing to the vast distance, I reported the names of scenic spots like a few treasures: Dragon patrolling the mountain, Guanyin enjoying music, Miaobu Lotus …

  It’s just that the weather is not good today. I can’t see a lot of things. His tone is full of regret.

  It’s good. I said.

  If the weather is fine, you can see more and more.

  I’ve seen enough. I’ve seen everything you said.

  His expression was obviously incredulous, probably because he thought I was perfunctory. I don’t defend myself. How can a word explain my mood clearly? I know the beauty here, this side of the mountain is different from that side, and this slope is different from that one. Every day is different, every moment is different. Rain is different from snow, early spring and late autumn, midsummer and midwinter. But I can’t live here forever. I, limited, can only come to this mountain at this time. All kinds of limitations determine that I may not come many times in the future. Then concentrate on enjoying the beauty of this moment. As long as I enjoy the beauty of this moment intently, even if I come only once, it will be many times and countless times.

  Just as there is only one life. Living a good life this time is actually equivalent to living many times.

  This is my one. I want to keep my one.

  So, really, everything you can see is good. I have actually seen what I can’t see. Take the heart as the purpose.

  Tao gives birth to one, life to two, life to three, and life to all things. For a moment, I suddenly understood this sentence. Legend has it that after I wrote the Classic of Tao Te Ching, I bid farewell to Yin Xi, the official of Hangu Pass, and rode away on a green ox. Historical Records records: "I don’t know where it will end". In fact, there is no need to know this. He is on the road.

  Looking towards the west, the mountains are boundless. I checked with my mobile phone, and it is 168.1 kilometers from Laojunshan to Hanguguan. Looking at this number with zero and integer, I laughed silently. This one, how good.

  (This version of the picture comes from the network)


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